Hello Fred
This is your former neighbor, Yelena, living at: 882 craig street, Clairton.
First of all, I want to thank you for being a very good and respectful neighbor for us, for a long time.
Secondly, I am very sorry, that you moved to another place and sold your house to other people.
Your relative and his family turned out to be completely different people, then you and your wife.
Thirdly, I want you to know: I would never have the desire to put a fence between us, if you still would be our neighbor. It was just no need for that.
But right now... we have no choice. It will be the fence between our properties! My daughter will put a few security cameras around our house also.
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It all started with the fact that neihbor's guest periodically stepped on our flower beds. The first and second time I saw this through the window, I said nothing.
But when it happened the third time, and the side of the flowerbed even squinted, I asked the owners of the house (very politely and calmly) to make the guest more attentive. I put my work into these flower beds and they are important to me.
It must be said that we made flower beds, stepping back from the property line- two feet, allowing our neighbors to step on this part of our land, for their comfort. But it turns out, that 2 feet is not enough for them; we should move even further and give them even more of our land to use ...??? That seemed to us a little strange ...
Jerry and his girlfriend reacted positively to my request (it seemed to me at first), and promised to pass my request to their guest.
However, after my request, rather strange and unpleasant things began to come from our new neighbors...
Melissa asked me to share my irises to her. I gladly shared with her the best varieties of my flowers and even gave her a bucket of good ground for planting. I want to make something nice to her.
Imagine my disappointment when she simply left the dug flower bulbs, dying on their drive under the scorching sun. I watched through the window for 3-4 days as my favorite flowers slowly and painfully dying ...
If she would threw them into the forest, I would never know about anything.
But this ''show'' was clearly designed for me as a spectator. And Melissa knew perfectly well, that it will be upset me.
I had the courage not to look out the window, and I wanted irises to die as soon as possible already...so she would have thrown them out of my eyes.
By our mentality-we never taking back anything, we already gave to other people.
I have no choice, except to watch this mockery...
But the ''show'' did not end there. Melissa decided to put already dead irises in a bucket of water, imitating care and love for plants.
The bucket stood for another week in front of my windows, until the tubers finally rotted ...
I was shocked. I understood very well what exactly my neighbor wanted to tell me with this gesture. Namely:'' I want to shit on your flowers and on you! You are not important to us at all!''
When I told this story to a few people around, whom I know, also to most of my friends-they all said, like one voice:
-''This woman not just nasty. She is dangerous! She has the tendency to kill things in her revenge...'' And one man even said-''I would be AWARE of her, if I would be Jerry''.
(See the attachment,I made picture of my poor flowers,for the bad memory).
In a day or two later, another Jerry's guest(I think, he is Jerry's father), parked his truck on the very edge of our property and opened door on our side
in such way, we could not even walk around our house. (See attachment).
And it wasn't opened for a couple minutes, it was opened like that for an hours! It was a lot of place on the back, or on the right side of their driveway, but he picked an absolute narrow area on purpose! He also wanted to tell us: ''You are not really important to us! We will do to you, anything we want...''
A few days later, another Jerry's guest (I guess, his brother),let his dog to loose on our property. (And they knew-I don't want dogs on my property, because few times it was dog's feces near my porch,after what I stuck a plate with the inscription: ''Pls, be respectful! Watch your dog messes on other people's properties.'').
Of course, the dog may accidentally enter somebody'else territory, but in this case it was not an accident.
The situation was as follows: the owner of the dog and other guy was talking and staying on their driveway - they let the dog into our property on purpose!,(they saw where she ran and did not stop her;) and then they were watching my reaction to it, with a malicious smiles...
My partner Igor was just setting up a barrel and both men could not see him behind the barrel. Igor says it did not look like an accident; but it looked like another nasty joke.
Every day, their house full of people like a noisy gypsy camp. It is lot of cars and trucks,which they parked across of our property and blocked our view.(Why do not park it across of their own house???)
This is your former neighbor, Yelena, living at: 882 craig street, Clairton.
First of all, I want to thank you for being a very good and respectful neighbor for us, for a long time.
Secondly, I am very sorry, that you moved to another place and sold your house to other people.
Your relative and his family turned out to be completely different people, then you and your wife.
Thirdly, I want you to know: I would never have the desire to put a fence between us, if you still would be our neighbor. It was just no need for that.
But right now... we have no choice. It will be the fence between our properties! My daughter will put a few security cameras around our house also.
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It all started with the fact that neihbor's guest periodically stepped on our flower beds. The first and second time I saw this through the window, I said nothing.
But when it happened the third time, and the side of the flowerbed even squinted, I asked the owners of the house (very politely and calmly) to make the guest more attentive. I put my work into these flower beds and they are important to me.
It must be said that we made flower beds, stepping back from the property line- two feet, allowing our neighbors to step on this part of our land, for their comfort. But it turns out, that 2 feet is not enough for them; we should move even further and give them even more of our land to use ...??? That seemed to us a little strange ...
Jerry and his girlfriend reacted positively to my request (it seemed to me at first), and promised to pass my request to their guest.
However, after my request, rather strange and unpleasant things began to come from our new neighbors...
Melissa asked me to share my irises to her. I gladly shared with her the best varieties of my flowers and even gave her a bucket of good ground for planting. I want to make something nice to her.
Imagine my disappointment when she simply left the dug flower bulbs, dying on their drive under the scorching sun. I watched through the window for 3-4 days as my favorite flowers slowly and painfully dying ...
If she would threw them into the forest, I would never know about anything.
But this ''show'' was clearly designed for me as a spectator. And Melissa knew perfectly well, that it will be upset me.
I had the courage not to look out the window, and I wanted irises to die as soon as possible already...so she would have thrown them out of my eyes.
By our mentality-we never taking back anything, we already gave to other people.
I have no choice, except to watch this mockery...
But the ''show'' did not end there. Melissa decided to put already dead irises in a bucket of water, imitating care and love for plants.
The bucket stood for another week in front of my windows, until the tubers finally rotted ...
I was shocked. I understood very well what exactly my neighbor wanted to tell me with this gesture. Namely:'' I want to shit on your flowers and on you! You are not important to us at all!''
When I told this story to a few people around, whom I know, also to most of my friends-they all said, like one voice:
-''This woman not just nasty. She is dangerous! She has the tendency to kill things in her revenge...'' And one man even said-''I would be AWARE of her, if I would be Jerry''.
(See the attachment,I made picture of my poor flowers,for the bad memory).
In a day or two later, another Jerry's guest(I think, he is Jerry's father), parked his truck on the very edge of our property and opened door on our side
in such way, we could not even walk around our house. (See attachment).
And it wasn't opened for a couple minutes, it was opened like that for an hours! It was a lot of place on the back, or on the right side of their driveway, but he picked an absolute narrow area on purpose! He also wanted to tell us: ''You are not really important to us! We will do to you, anything we want...''
A few days later, another Jerry's guest (I guess, his brother),let his dog to loose on our property. (And they knew-I don't want dogs on my property, because few times it was dog's feces near my porch,after what I stuck a plate with the inscription: ''Pls, be respectful! Watch your dog messes on other people's properties.'').
Of course, the dog may accidentally enter somebody'else territory, but in this case it was not an accident.
The situation was as follows: the owner of the dog and other guy was talking and staying on their driveway - they let the dog into our property on purpose!,(they saw where she ran and did not stop her;) and then they were watching my reaction to it, with a malicious smiles...
My partner Igor was just setting up a barrel and both men could not see him behind the barrel. Igor says it did not look like an accident; but it looked like another nasty joke.
Every day, their house full of people like a noisy gypsy camp. It is lot of cars and trucks,which they parked across of our property and blocked our view.(Why do not park it across of their own house???)
One of Jerry's friend swearing dirty and loud,all the time.
Me and my partner,we both have feelings, like we live in gypsy camp and in a big car garage anymore.
If to add to this the unceremonious behavior of our neighbors, the situation here is not at all enviable.
Of course, we tired of that and we want our own privacy.
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After all of that, we decided to put fencing all around our property and I already got permit for that.
I still tried to be nice to Jerry and asked him-how he wants this fence to be on his side?
After that he started to push me to give them, at least, foot or two of our property. He even try to fool me around-HE IS THE CONTRACTOR! and knows everything about the sizes and distances! It should be not closer, then 2 feet from property line!!!
This is made me really mad!
What kind of fool he thinks I am-to give my property to someone and continie to pay tax for that!? Or to belive in his contractor's ''knowledge''?
So... they want us now to make a concession and not put up a fence at all, or give them 2 feet of our land, because they will be tight behind the fence ?!
But it’s not even this foot of the property... See deeper...
Things don’t work in a such way, when they give a damn about people at first, make fun of them and mock them all the time, and then ask them for a favor. Agree, it doesn't work this way ?!
I want to make an example of one Russian aphorism, about what SUPER IMPUDENCE is? Namely: super impudence is: ''when one man urinated into another man's hat, and then asked him to have dinner with him.''
This is approximately the situation between us and our new neighbors today.
We have come to the conclusion that your nephew’s family is unintelligent, rude, and shortsighted.
At least, because any normal person, before doing dirty tricks to another person, will certainly think: ''how can this turn against me in the future?''
It seems to us, they do not use the brain, but simply do petty nonsense thoughtlessly.
They feel like they are cool jokers, with a great sense of humor; they think-they look brave,witty and they are masters of the situation.
And we are just two stupid Russian idiots for them,who do not know anything in this life, do not have any taste on anything, and therefore, Why even take us into account?
in the event, when they do not humiliate the dignity and feelings of other people.
In any other case, this is no longer a joke...
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Thank you for reading this letter. I just want you to be informed from both sides,but not from only one side...
Yelena.
